If your baby wakes up hungry each night, besides boosting daytime milk, it makes sense to boost evening calories by dream feeding your baby. Think of it like topping off the gas tank of your car by filling it to the brim...so there's no need to refuel during the journey ahead. The dream feed will eliminate—or delay—one of the top reasons babies wake through the night: rumbling in the tummy.

What is dream feeding?

Dream feeding is when you rouse your baby—without fully waking—to feed one more time before you turn in for the night. Babies who go to sleep between 6 and 8 p.m. often wake out of hunger in the middle of the night. Research shows that sneaking in an extra feed between 10 p.m. and midnight usually reduces night wakings, helping babies stay asleep until a more “reasonable” time of the morning. This can become part of your little one’s regular sleep schedule.

How do I dream feed?

Ready to try it? Follow these steps:

  • Gently take your baby out of the bassinet or crib between 10 p.m. and 12 a.m. (around when you’re going to bed)
  • Place your breast (or bottle) on your baby's lower lip; she should start feeding, even if she doesn’t fully wake.
  • Encourage nursing for 5 to 10 minutes on one side, then offer the other side for 5 to 10 more minutes.

If your baby is super sleepy, you may need to rouse her a bit, by changing her diaper, tickling her toes or cooling her legs/face head with a wet washcloth.

Do you burp a baby after a dream feed?

Yes. You always want to burp a baby after a dream feed—or any feed—before putting her back down on the back.

How to get your baby back to sleep:

To get your little one back down after the dream feed, the 5 S's (Swaddling, Side/Stomach, Shushing, Swinging, Sucking) can really help.

First, swaddle your baby—if you haven't already—and play some rumbly white noise. I recommend playing it all night, but you can turn up the volume as you're putting your baby back down.

In addition to white noise, rhythmic motion can help lull babies to sleep. SNOO Smart Sleeper, is a responsive bassinet that uses womb-like sound and motion (and a built-in swaddle!) to soothe babies quickly back to sleep after a feed (usually adding sleep for the whole family).

Other time-tested tricks are rocking in a rocking chair, walking with your baby in your arms, bouncing on an exercise ball, and offering a pacifier. (As an added bonus, a bedtime paci helps lower the risk of sudden infant sleep death, or SIDS.)

As you put your little one back in bed, remember to do the quick "wake and sleep" trick, which teaches your baby to fall asleep on her own.


Why dream feeds are great for your infant:

  • She'll get the extra calories she needs to sleep better.
  • The meal is at a convenient time (so you sleep longer).
  • The feeding is not in response to her crying (responding to cries with a feed can inadvertently encourage your baby to feed more at night).
  • She'll eat less during the night and therefore be hungrier in the morning, which will boost her daytime eating.

Should I wake my baby for a second dream feed?

If your baby frequently wakes around 3:30 a.m. in spite of the dream feed and using strong, rumbly white noise, consider setting your alarm to give one more dream feed at 3 a.m. The idea is to pick up and feed your little one before she wakes you, so you're giving her the nourishment she needs, but not rewarding her for waking and crying.

If you have to do this early-morning dream feed, make sure you give a little less milk than usual. If you're nursing, just feed on one side for this second dream feed. If you're bottle-feeding, add double the amount of water the formula directions suggest (just for one feeding) for a few days.

IMPORTANT: Please note that it’s dangerous for parents to dilute milk for meals…that leads to malnutrition. Diluting for this wee-hour feed is totally different. The purpose of the extra water is to fill the stomach with enough ounces, but fewer calories. That can help babies sleep through to morning…when they will be hungry and ready to eat again.

Remember, your goal is to provide the same amount of calories in a 24-hour cycle but to shift more of the feedings to waking hours—this adjustment can significantly improve nighttime sleep! It’s best not to talk or cuddle too much at 3:30 a.m. You want to be loving when you feed your baby, but not encouraging her to think that it's time to play.

When should I stop dream feeding?

Remember, your goal with dream feeding is to help your baby sleep from the time you go to bed through until the morning. As stated above, 5 to 10 minutes on each side should be enough for most babies.

At what age should I stop dream feeding?

All babies are different, so there is no specific age recommendation. My general rule is that you can bid adieu to the dream feed 2 to 4 weeks after your baby is sleeping well from the time of your dream feed on through to the morning.

Final Thoughts on the Dream Feed and Other Sleep Tips

If your newborn baby is having difficulty sleeping, then you may need an extra set of hands to help you lull them—and you—catch those precious zzz’s. SNOO is a smart bassinet that automatically soothes fussing with gentle rocking and white noise. You can learn more about SNOO and find some other great sleep resources below:

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