Don’t be sheepish about being a germ-fighting champion for your new baby! Because, if you don't defend your baby…who will?
Babies are like a fortress with few soldiers inside…infections are kept on their skin and the lining of their mouth and nose. And, breast milk gives babies a wonderful supply of infection-fighting white blood cells that literally coat the intestines (and even swim over to the lungs to vigilantly police against invasion).
However, once the mean germs get inside a young baby’s body (especially in the first 4 moths of life), they can take over and cause illnesses that are very inconvenient–waking all night because of a stuffy nose or down right serious…even life threatening. It is this weakness of the immune system that makes it so important to give vaccines during the very vulnerable first months.
(Interestingly, once your baby reaches 4-6 months of age, her immune system is much stronger and some exposure to germs will actually help build his immune system.)
Here are a few ultra-practical tips to keep those germs away from your precious, new little human.
1. Just Say No…to Visitors…
Limit guests to close friends and family. And, only let the ones in who will be low maintenance and highly helpful—as in, cooking, cleaning and soothing the baby. As a new parent, you want to be polite, but not stupid polite. In other words, defending your baby’s health is more important than defending your friends’ feelings.
2. …And Especially Limit Child Visitors!
Keep kids out of your house as much as possible (they carry more colds). If you have a toddler or a preschooler, wash their hands and faces right when they get home and change them into clean clothes to keep the germs in check.
3. Speaking of Clean Clothes…
Make everyone throw on a clean t-shirt, pronto! Put a sign on your front door telling all visitors to immediately wash their hands and slip on an oversized t-shirt—keep a stack of clean ones by your front door—before they hug you and glom you up with their germs. The sign will save you a lot of energy when it comes to communicating your new “house rules.”
4. Breastfeed If You Can
Colostrum, which is what comes in the first few days before the milk comes in, is filled with antibodies and white blood cells that carry the mother’s immunity and literally coat the baby’s intestine and keep bad bacteria out of her body. (And, if your baby gets a cold, ask your doctor about pumping out a drop or two of your milk—into a dropper—and putting it right into your baby’s nose to help fight off a cold. Breast milk is packed with antibodies, white blood cells, enzymes and all sorts of other factors that boost a baby’s immune system. And finally, to make a long story short, breast milk essentially gives your baby probiotics, the good bacteria that helps keep us healthy!
5. Wash Your Hands – A Lot!
This really works, especially when you return home from public places. Regular soap is fine. (Don’t use antibacterial soap. It contains harsh chemicals. As of Sept. 2016, the FDA banned 19 chemicals found in these soaps, but has not yet ruled on 3 chemicals.)
6. The Importance of Scrubbing—and Rubbing
Germs are like cooked rice: To remove them from your skin, you have to rub them off. That means running soapy hands under the faucet isn’t enough, you’ll have to vigorously rub your hands together to get rid of germs. So, if you ever can’t wash before holding your baby, rub your hands on your pants to reduce the germ transfer.
7. When You Go Out, Keep Your Hands to Yourself!
Many parents don’t understand that you catch most colds from touching things and then transferring the germs to your eyes, nose mouth. Germs are spread by contact, not by droplets in the air. So, you don’t have to be a total hermit with your baby. You can take her outside the home. Here’s how to think about it: Your baby won’t get sick because you went to a restaurant, but she may get sick because you opened the door to restaurant…and then brushed your hand on her face. So be mindful of what you touch and…WASH. THOSE. HANDS!
8. Immunize Your Baby–and His Inner Circle
We’re incredibly blessed to no longer have tens of thousands of our babies dying from measles and meningitis, or crippled from polio. To fully protect your baby, makes sure he starts his vaccines by 2 months of age. And please understand that some illnesses like whooping cough and influenza are especially dangerous in the first months of life. That’s why it’s crucial that all family members and caregivers are immunized…you want to create a “cocoon” of protection for that time before your infant can get his shots.
9. Don’t Travel If You Don’t Have To
It can be incredibly stressful if your baby gets sick and you can’t get to your trusted pediatrician. Save yourself this problem and stay close to home.
Keep in mind, you don’t have to live in a germ-free world forever… just for the first 3-4 months. In fact, I’m a fan of the 5-second rule for older babies. If you are too hygienic, it can lead to more allergies. It’s also smart to take your baby to visit a farm sometime in the first year of life, which has shown to decrease the development of allergies. And, babies are known to have a blast listening to the animals neigh, cluck and moo!