What to Do If the 5 S's Aren't Calming Cries
Many babies need 2 or more of the 5S’s to settle a big upset. Moms from the !Kung culture in Africa use a mix of tight holding, rocking, nursing and repeating, “Uhn-uhn, uhn, uhn,” over and over. In Tanzania, moms soothe crying by cuddling their babies while pretending to grind corn (vigorously bending and straightening and humming a rough noise). And in America, parents drive around their neighborhoods – hitting every pothole and speed bump they can find – soothing their baby’s upset with the loud rumble of the motor and lots of jiggly jolts.
Of course, when your baby fusses you should first check to make sure he’s not hungry, wet, or lonely. (Even if he just finished feeding, try offering a little more to eat.)
If feeding, holding and skin-to-skin contact don’t seem to be working, the 5 S’s usually do the trick. But if they don’t help, here are some other things to consider:
Does your baby have a little problem? Is your child getting too little milk, or perhaps too much? Is she struggling to make a poop? Fortunately, little problems like these are usually obvious and easy to resolve.
Does your baby have a bigger problem? 5-10% of colicky babies have a medical cause of their crying, such as food intolerance, urinary infection, or stomach acid reflux.
- Are you doing the 5 S’s correctly? If the S’s don’t work, 9 times out of 10 it’s either because your frantic baby needs a couple more S’s or because you need to spiff up your technique a little. So, double check that you are doing the S’s exactly right by watching the DVD.
If you've tried everything, and the fussing continues, you'll want to talk to your pediatrician.